The whole event was fast and furious. Went to ktv and sat with her, then a week later called her to sit with me again. Both times she refused to go to hotel saying that she didn't do that. SMS her a few times for lunch appt, then I started this thread to ask if I should gave tips for lunch. Went to a few lunches and told her i wanted to help her with expenses. She told me to pay for the tuition fee. I agreed as long as she went to hotel with me during that duration and she refused. I told her to think about it. After a few days, we met up for lunch again and she agreed to give it a try for $1K for a few weeks. We did and I loved every second I was with her. Able to do a few shots within short time duration because I felt she was clean and damned pretty (15 yrs younger than me). This was in October. We went for overseas holiday (I gave her $ for loss of income) and it was a mind blowing experience. Not only the sex, but the whole experience of sightseeing, in the car, candlelit dinner, spa, etc. She was so happy and said that she liked me a lot after this trip (not love). I don't know what that means since we are already together for 2 months and i guessed in the first month, she didn't like me. I was just a customer she was trying. Anyway, I began to have feeling for her and am trying hard to control. After the trip, I proposed to be closer to her and she gave me 2 options if I like. One is to just treat this as pay as you use. Another one is to bao her and she said $5k so she can stop working and focus on her study and me. Told her $2K and she laughed it off. We agreed to discuss it again some other times, maybe under diff term and conditions. Things I liked about her other than appearance is that she is not trying to hard to please you like, serving you tea, trying to smile at everything you said, etc like other ktv gals. I found her to be comfortable of being herself, venting Reviewustration, telling me her hobby, etc. Note that I don't speak mandarin, so this gal is English speaking prc, which is very rare. At this point, I missed her more than she missed me. I know her whereabout every single hour (don't ask me how), and i found her to be an ordinary gal who does not screw around. That's why it's hard to break this up. I found this forum to be useful to get my brain back to my proper head. I tried sitting with another gal at ktv during this time, but found that the experience was so bland...after tasting honey, the normal sugar is not so sweet anymore.