Farangs and Bargirls

[Smith]

Most of the farangs that come to Pataya are good hearted,but they are often very stupid over the bar girls.When the American servicemen came,and even the very first German tourists,the girls used to treat them like Thai men and take care of them very well.But over the course of time,the farang men have acted so foolishly that our girls have now realised that they are completely different from Thai men,and that they will stil give them plenty of Money and gifts even if they behave badly.Those first lucky farangs who came to Pataya and paid girls to stay with them were treated to companions who pampered them properly as they would a Thai man,and who would never argue or speak badly to their “boyfriends”. Even the tourists who only took the girls for a night or two would be massaged and would have their finger and toe nails cut; and their bodies would be washed from head to toe before being pleased with the best sex that a girl could offer.This was the Thai way then. Now, every ban nok village (up country) in Thailand has girls who have worked in Pataya and the softness-if not the stupidity-of most farang men is almost legendary,so much so that now even new girls from up-country know that they do not need to try too hard to relieve a tourist of his Money.
Ofcourse,there are still some good girls around Pataya but they are very few and far between now.And the poor farangs continue to fall in love and end up broken hearted when the girls get bored and romance is over.Many farangs come to Thailand with the idea of saving a poor but beautiful Thai girl who will surely love him forever for rescuing her from a life of poverty. These men very often end up hopeless drunks who sit around in miserable groups bemoaning the stupidity of the Thai girls who it seems,did not want to be saved at all and who have no concept of the benefits of a comfortable and secure life with a partner that they cannot even communicate with.Now and again i see a marriage or a relationship that seems to be working,but no matter howlong a couple stay together there is always the danger that one day the girl will decide that she want to be a Thai again.

 

[sdselt]

Some are still like that. I met one 2 years ago. Married her. Never thought I'd meet another who pampered me like she does.. but i did.... just 2 weeks ago in patong on my lastest ever monger tour (honest) :-

Nose picked... on the beach
eybrows preened.....
ears cleaned ( and they needed it ! )...
shaved face whilst lying on my back with my head on her lap....
lost of post xxx massages....
finger and toe nails clipped...
head shaved ...
armpits ... shaved and plucked ..... well how could i resist

... and a total 10 days and nights of good company, best 'honeymoon' experience ever. I'll leave that to ur imagination.


H3X

 

[Joanne :)]

How do you get away with quoting around ? 5555

 

[Elizabet]

no, you are wrong, i am neighter Thai nor living in LOs but if i total the days i spent in Los on my last 10 year....I think it should be about 700-800 days.

"our girls" does not mean what you deduced.. it is a figurative pronunciation...
i feel like they belong to me or us.... or they(BGs) are here for me or for us...isnt it?

cheers

 

[Wishy]

How do you know what has changed so much, you're only 30 years old
IMO, history repeats itself in cycles, with the necessary "global" change of advanced thinking/behavior. Time is not standing still - no where. People adapt.



A good thing, they are adapting, what would you do ?



Cycles, they come and go :rules:



Once in a while someone has to do a good deed :love3:



You can always learn some Thai, there are books available, otherwise, just ask JB or Mai Chob for advise



Mmhh, my wife never said that she doesn't want to be a Thai, so I guess the risk of her wanting to be Thai again is not existing.

Sorry to rip your post apart, I found it an interesting read, just put some of my thoughts into it..take it light :thumbsup:

 

[Pompal 09.]

Or maybe it's just a case of having been jilted by his TG ? h:[/QUOTE]


never did that wrong since now and i hope i will not

 

[cateaway]

I know Paulie, at the end it's really up to anyone be happy in their relationship.

I do get a lot you say in regards of not wanting someone who cleans up the pieces behind you. You want a bit a challenge. Nothing wrong with that at all !

And yes, I'm joking around because it's just so much fun and it's 6 in the morning and I just come home from a nice night out 5555

 

[suszcza]

Dear Astor77, I' m sorry for your experience but keep fishing, one day you will find out that not all fish are all alike.

 

[Gayle]

You've never been married.

 

[daywalker]

i didnt have a bad experience....its just what i have learned last 10 years
dont worry :^^:

 

[Pompal 09.]

I suppose in a way I was hoping that you'd realised your dream of opening the bar/go-go/restaurant/guesthouse that you had mentioned before and were talking about the girls working there.

However, given the intensity of what you've written and the fact that you are not seen often on this board, then it's not hard to see why some of us were trying to figure out what was behind your post.

 

[toilltoft]

i respect your opinion and what you like
me, however, have zero desire to be with a girl like you explain
i once hung with a tg that would want to take off my shoes when i came home and clip my nails
it made me totally uncomfortable
i like a girl that is secure in herself and independant. one that will tell me to "fcuk off" and mine certainly does!!

again, everyone has their own likes and dislikes

 

[xxabbyxxjoexx]

He's got a point here !

 

[coldplay24]

I think there are some great girls out there. I met one on my May tour and when I came in July I was privilaged to be with her. She treated me very very well....

This last bit made me read tho.... What about the relationships that do work... It's the same in every culture, race, nationality. There is usually more to a relationship not working out than what you are saying.

 

[Sandra C.]

at the end any place you want a BM's post to break off, for you to throw in your two cent's worth, then after you put your piece in, you write

Okay, I got your first reply to my quote but never seen the "segment" part, did I say that before ?

 

[celiajn6]

I guess I don't know what you were asking, because I looked at your previous posts, and you already were doing the parsing, just as I explained it.

 

[BOsKO]

i still have the same dream/plan of that if i can end or sell my own business here (it is very difficult)....

about my post....if BMs are uncomfortable about that..i can delete it no worries :arf:

 

[Whitney C]

I don't think it's a case of making anyone uncomfortable, more like...

Where did this come from ? What made you suddenly post something like that ?

Never give up on your deams, they are what keep us going.

 

[Pompal 09.]

l thought that this answer may have stopped her interest.

 

[Chad_1_1]

Does she have to say it a lot ? Man, you are a character 5555