How Much Did You Spend in 2023

[Hamiltondude1234]

i am usually 220-280 per week with my regular.. i do see her almost every week but totally worth it she's pregnant now and i get to see her journey and she says soon she will be lactating !!! and she was game on for when that happens

i tend to see 1 or 2 during the month to change it up around 160 - 220

 

[Sybarite]

His reference is to the money being spent and not to the amount of sex, I can understand his comment as if you earn 200,000 your net pay is about 124,500 so a figure like 35K is a lot. Again it is all relative to income but given the average household incomes in Toronto you can draw the inference that people are overspending on MPAs/escorts based on incomes. I have a good income and was doing my finances recently and realized I spent around 18K or 1500 a month on MPAs/escorts which in my opinion was too high/excessive so my goal this year is to be more strict with my budget.

https://www03.cmhc-schl.gc.ca/hmip-pimh/en/TableMapChart/TableMatchingCriteria?GeographyType=MetropolitanMajorArea&GeographyId=2270&CategoryLevel1=Population%2C%20Households%20and%20Housing%20Stock&CategoryLevel2=Household%20Income&ColumnField=HouseholdIncomeRange&RowField=SurveyZone&SearchTags%5B0%5D.Key=Households&SearchTags%5B0%5D.Value=Number&SearchTags%5B1%5D.Key=Statistics&SearchTags%5B1%5D.Value=AverageAndMedian

So in other words, it's only obsessive and problematic if you can't afford it...

 

[Leo44]

This hobby is not for everyone because it is very expensive. If someone spends 1K on a montlhy basis on this hobby, he can easily lease a high-end mercedez suv with that money. Only few, very few indeed, can spend 1K monthly, and assuming that they also save money for retirement, vacation, other hobbies, etc. But, if you have a low income and try to partake on this hobby then you are in big trouble.

 

[FingerSquawk]

i am usually 220-280 per week with my regular.. i do see her almost every week but totally worth it she's pregnant now and i get to see her journey and she says soon she will be lactating !!! and she was game on for when that happens

i tend to see 1 or 2 during the month to change it up around 160 - 220

Yours?

 

[Hamiltondude1234]

Yours what?

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Yours what?

Baby. His regular is pregnant. I have not had breast milk since I was a baby, but apparently it contains a lot of colostrum which is good for you. Lactation does nothing for me but it is popular on porn and cam websites.

 

[Ambler]

This hobby is not for everyone because it is very expensive. If someone spends 1K on a montlhy basis on this hobby, he can easily lease a high-end mercedez suv with that money. Only few, very few indeed, can spend 1K monthly, and assuming that they also save money for retirement, vacation, other hobbies, etc. But, if you have a low income and try to partake on this hobby then you are in big trouble.

Everything is relative. I get taxed more than $10K per month, and hobby for much less than that. The difference, the former I am getting fucked, the latter I get to do the fucking.

 

[TheBigV]

12K

Mix of spas and escorts. However, at some spas its just strait to FS.

Really miss the old times where I could get a decent massage, great tease and HE or bbbj.

 

[Deleted member 107081]

60k, bbfs isn't cheap. I really need to cut down. I only make 160k a year and after taxes that's like 100k.

400 an hour at asian places plus 200 extra for bbfscip really adds up

 

[Deleted member 107081]

You only make 160k per year? If you don't mind me asking, what the hell do you do for a living?

Software developer. It's a lot of money compared to the average person but a couple of my friends who are in the hobby make like 500k+ from owning their own business.

I rent a studio, have zero kids, not even a car.

They're living in 5 bedroom houses, have 2-3 kids, multiple cars, fancy watches, good vacations, don't even bother with agency girls and only bang those high class broads.

So spending 60% of my money on sex, having <50k in savings, a pretty meager lifestyle seems sad in comparison.

 

[Jumpin’ Jack Flash]

Yours?

OG’s

 

[Deleted member 101953]

Software developer. It's a lot of money compared to the average person but a couple of my friends who are in the hobby make like 500k+ from owning their own business.

I rent a studio, have zero kids, not even a car.

They're living in 5 bedroom houses, have 2-3 kids, multiple cars, fancy watches, good vacations, don't even bother with agency girls and only bang those high class broads.

So spending 60% of my money on sex, having <50k in savings, a pretty meager lifestyle seems sad in comparison.

Have you ever been in a relationship with a civilian and would you do it all over again or you just prefer having fun with working girls?

 

[Deleted member 107081]

Have you ever been in a relationship with a civilian and would you do it all over again or you just prefer having fun with working girls?

Yes I've had lots of girlfriends in the past.

I'm mid 30s now and don't feel it anymore. Maybe if I met the right person but it's pretty tough to stop having raw sex with multiple beautiful girls. Relationship sex gets boring after a month.

 

[UsefulIdiot]

Yes I've had lots of girlfriends in the past.

I'm mid 30s now and don't feel it anymore. Maybe if I met the right person but it's pretty tough to stop having raw sex with multiple beautiful girls. Relationship sex gets boring after a month.

Relationships are about much more than sex. I think most of us men need intimacy, though we are usually unaware that we do. "Men search for sex and find love. Women look for love and find sex". I am glad I did not hobby until my 50s, I would not have had the patience for girlfriends if I had not, and my standards would have been unrealistically high. If I had a girlfriend who was holding out on me or was upset with me I would have moved on instead of working things out. Beyond sex and intimacy I like to spend time with people I find interesting, which given the different backgrounds and usually limited English fluency, it is difficult to be fully satisfied with SWs. Although lately that has not been a problem for me.

 

[Deleted member 107081]

Relationships are about much more than sex. I think most of us men need intimacy, though we are usually unaware that we do. "Men search for sex and find love. Women look for love and find sex". I am glad I did not hobby until my 50s, I would not have had the patience for girlfriends if I had not, and my standards would have been unrealistically high. If I had a girlfriend who was holding out on me or was upset with me I would have moved on instead of working things out. Beyond sex and intimacy I like to spend time with people I find interesting, which given the different backgrounds and usually limited English fluency, it is difficult to be fully satisfied with SWs. Although lately that has not been a problem for me.

I've been filling that gap with sugar babies. It's nice hanging out with them for a few hours and creampieing them a few times.

We watch movies, go to clubs, restaurants, it's nice and not much of a commitment.

 

[Dfkking]

At my peak I was around $1100 with SPs and $600 for legit massages per week.

I usually did 1-3 hour sessions and than got a 2 hour massage after. My costs would’ve been higher but my regulars would give no clock or “date” off the clock. I did mostly indies and minimal agency.

I worked crazy and intense hours so needed to find ways to relax at odd hours of the day.

To me this was therapy, escapism and coping with life. I have an addictive and compulsive personality at times but I’m also good with and making $.

 

[cl794]

Software developer. It's a lot of money compared to the average person but a couple of my friends who are in the hobby make like 500k+ from owning their own business.

I rent a studio, have zero kids, not even a car.

They're living in 5 bedroom houses, have 2-3 kids, multiple cars, fancy watches, good vacations, don't even bother with agency girls and only bang those high class broads.

So spending 60% of my money on sex, having QUOTE]

Software business? Or like say entirely different business

 

[SLDick]

$8300

 

[AthleticAF]

Fuck all, I took a break my cousin however spent some $$ lol

 

[eyeswideshut]

Too much