Hate when they call me baby!
This topic has been discussed a few times and it is actually a good read, but it does have a common denominator No LOVE!!
Could be affection, empathy, liking, etc.
They all have different reasons of why they are doing this job, but their main goal is to make good cash.
They will never tell all the details of her life and lie about some, but a good chunk of them, specially asian ones do it to support their families back home.
When I get close to them and ask the question, why are you doing this job? They will say because the need to make good money and because they really can't see themselves doing other job because of lack of education. Surprisingly majority of them don't even have a high school diploma. Some are divorced (that's what they say) ex not supporting and they grow with the idea that all men are the same except their Dads. Some have still a good heart and haven't turn completely to the dark side, but top dollar is their goal.
I was seeing one mpa from time to time for about 2 years in and out the spa last year, we had a good time the past summer, one day at the spa having a BS, I asked for more and she agreed to put it in and we had a really good session, but at the end of it she could not look me in the eyes and when I said thank you, see you next time she said "I don't want to see you anymore". I know she does BS to others; so I let it rest for few weeks until I reached out to her and say hi and had little convo in which she said she is here working to make money and she knows her limits (semi legit), the convo was going into drama mode, so I told her that I like her and we are good friends, so no need for more, but want to keep the friendship. She agreed and I have cut seeing/talking to her about 70% of what I used to. We have had sex a couple of times since, but I don't dig more into her life because I don't want drama in my life and I told her I just want to enjoy when I see her. I have few other stories but it all comes down to same drama no fun crap.
So be a bit selfish, enjoy and don't turn things into drama. Have options and be friendly with them since they are human.
Cheers,