Bad night out

[b8ee1]

Was walking along Bangla after leaving U2 bar around 2am on way to Soi Sansabai, suddenly sweet voice walking alongside asks

" Where you going ? "

Wow what a hottie was there so I replied " never mind where I`m going, where are you going ?

" With you " she said. Quick drink and within 30 mins we were back at the hotel. What a performance she gave and in the morning repeat too.

My point being I don`t usually go for freelancers but that drink and chat first showed me i had a good one. Wouldn`t rule one out next trip in October either. They all have their reasons why they don`t work the bar, but keep your wits about you and there`s nothing wrong with fl`s.

As Petruccis says, u will even have less hassle and save money

 

[Woooolfff]

Liza...nice fake boobs but! ( Her 3rd set apparently)

 

[diekery]

i would say 95% of the girls i went with in LOS where FL's i met in the disco's
i know they were after money but i just felt it felt more real in a way
just got a better connection because they were away from any bar pressure and just having fun
and i never once or was asked how much i had to pay the girl
just went home and paid them in the morning what i felt like

 

[PoLkA dOt PyJaMaS]

yeah seems to be a mistake... i always offered a price for long term and once agreed on, i paid the bar fine and then off to the disco or restaurant. actually i always take them to eat before going to the hotel. first to take of them and secondly to make sure i dont have too bad of a hang over in the morning so i can hit again haha. never a question on what was expected though

 

[Akhmet]

dont know the history and havent read throught the entire thread however i applaud your response to simply walk away, small change and not worth the spilt milk so find another girl and forget it

Like Nicke said best to be clear u want boom boom before you pay the barfine, didnt think that was needed but apparently these thais dont get it , i dont know

 

[Adnan Sallam]

It's called the "power of the pussy." If a certain girl you fancy gets you in her clutches, it can be difficult to walk away from her.

 

[livingdead]

And if you don't mind... in English too !!! :erf:

 

[bak0ntrak2009]

JB, I never said I let them come to me approach. Also I find beauty a little more than skin deep, attractiveness to you is the face it seems. I have to find the face appealing to me, but never think on scales and stunner rankings, in fact those terms really annoy me.

I cannot say I do not find a person attractive until I've spent time in their company getting to know them, of course someone physically repulsive to me, I would not take home, but physically repulsive girls do not appear here very often, they wouldn't make a living.

And as for your comment of 'winning her over', well I'll leave that response to Easyrider but I bet FFS is in his sentance!!!!!

 

[babiilove<3]

Appreciate what you are saying Marc and in no way disagree. However this thread is a bout a lad who through being a little bit trusting got himself into a bit of a pickle and someone suggested sticking to F/L. I just think a guy who gets the wrong end of a deal from a bar girl is not the kind of guy who should be trying to get it on with Freelancers. You may disagree but I think you are probably not new to LOS and know how to handle yourself whilst this lad clearly doesn't. A girl who would in no way try to take advaneforum.xxxe of you may well see a wide eyed newbie and take a different approach. I could be wrong of course.

 

[nurse curtis]

ugly or fat makes no difference..... :rofl:

 

[Wayne(Brandon)2]

I think the 1st time you BF a BG you should take them right to the loom and bang the shit out of her. Then if you still like her you can "date" her after.

 

[FuryHUH]

You were obviously taken for a ride, tough not the one you were hoping for.
Skip that bar, plenty of others around.
For some reason every once and while a certain girl is kinda reluctant to go to your room. Sh1t happens.
However letting all her friends drink all night on your tab does not up your chances of getting a girl to go with you. Pay a few drinks to a few of her friends and have fun. All those 1000's of bhat in ld's can be better be spent on another st or lt. That's the way I see it.
If I go to bar in LOS it is to find a st or lt lady friend and have some fun doing so, not to entertain half a soi of chicks I'm not planning on bar fining.

 

[oxprettyinpunkx]

What you said is that you don't go out looking. You go where you were planning to go anyhow, and see who you encounter there. That is a modified version of the "let them come to me" approach.
That is commendable, sir, and would that we could all be more that way. I find beauty is more than skin deep, as well, but unfortunately, if they don't pass the "pretty face" screening filter, then, as much as I may like them, I am inclined to move on after awhile, because it just doesn't bode well for the future of the relationship, what with all the pretty girls in LOS trying to turn your head. If I did find a girl that I decided to have a long-term relationship with, I would not want to be a butterfly.

I feel pretty much the same way. As one BM said, one's man's plane Jane is another man's stunner, esp. with TGs. But, OTOH, there are some girls who undeniably are beautiful and everyone agrees, so there are some true stunners out there. I don't look for those. When a girl attracts that much attention, it is rare that she is going to be an entirely normal person, and not high maintenance. Wouldn't want to get involved with that.

But a face that is appealing to one person, may not be appealing to another. A girl that I find very attractive, you might not find at all attractive. The trick for me is finding one who is not a stunner, but who, for whatever reason, I am very attracted to, possibly more attracted to , than to a stunner. Part of that has to do with the face, part of it with the person.

If I am immediately attracted to a gal, then I find her attractive. That attractiveness could increase or decrease, as I get to know her better. But if I don't find a girl attractive, then it is probably never going to increase to the point where I feel attracted enough to her to be in a long-term relationship.

I wish I found most all women attractive. Life would be so much easier. But if wishes were horses, then beggars would ride.

55555... Would like to hear what Craig has to say.

 

[chefgrille]

not wrong at all
that is a very good point you are making and people should be very aware and experienced when taking a FL

 

[Bittersweet]

Same here, just feels so much more natural like that, never had any problems.

 

[Binkster]

Probably been to Liza's bar say five times over the past couple of years, and have never felt comfortable there because of the continuous pressure to buy lady drinks, and the fact that Liza often asks if she can have a drink when you are buying one!!

The only reason I have gone back is because various mates have heard that he will show her norks from time to time, and if they insist on going, then of course I follow -- -- but the pressure to buy lady drinks still irks, so avoid it now.

IMHO, the OP was taken for a ride -- -- or wasn't as the case may be!!!!

 

[Ericho]

well said response JB

there is no right or wrong, especially when they are all a sure thing
whatever works for each guy

well said response JB

 

[MorRissa]

I just got back this morning from my 1st trip to phuket, very memorable 10 days! But on our 1st night something similar happened to me.
Had racked up a nice bill at a little aussie bar on beach rd not far from bangla corner.
Me and a mate bar fined 3 girls and went to play pool and then rockhard.

By the end of the night we had paired up, and assuming we would go to our hotel they said " we no go with you, we not like that!"
Fair enuff we were both smashed, being maybe too excited as it's our first night there.
So they took off and we went back to our rooms ( separate !!) by ourselves.

The next night myself and 2 others went and drank at the next bar up and partied the night away. Those same girls saw how much we were spending, don't know if it really bothered them. My 1st burnt lesson! But it never happened again.

 

[NeedASurgery]

You old romantic fool! :

 

[Briiiiia!]

Well, that is what experience has taught me, and especially in Patong, where at least twice, I have had girls do a runner on me. It's one or two drinks, and then before they run the bill up, I'll ask them if they think they would like to go to my room with me later. Sometimes I will ask them, if they want to go disco or get some dinner, but add, and after dinner/disco we go to my hotel room and boom boom, OK, na?