Need Advice...Crush on MPA...?

[bbb6]

On the flipside, this is a high risk high reward venture.

I know someone who did meet someone at a spa, one of the major chains too.

He had seen her on and off over the years at the spa, but didn't really connect until much later. They met up outside of the spa like a regular civilian relationship a few times, she eventually introduced him to the rest of her immediate family and friends. He got her to quit the business, they did everything right including went and got each other tested for STDs that came back clear. They're now as happy as ever, she's got a regular job after finishing her higher education diploma that the spa helped her put money towards. She had an exit strategy from day 1, it just so happens to coincide with the right timing that my buddy came along near the end. They even bought a place together.

Not saying this could happen to anyone and everyone, but the small chance that it could, could happen. You just have to be careful, and see if there is a game plan for her to want to make the connection with you. In my bud's case, it was an equal thing where she planned their outings, and so did he. I'd say there was equal effort. I was skeptical as hell for him in the beginning but glad to see it somehow worked out.

I'm not doubting your buddy's story or the fact it can happen but I knew a girl similar to this story years back. She was fucking me bareback the entire time and we still met on her off days sometimes while she was with the guy. Some girls are just really good at putting on an act and playing guys.

For OP, it's just not worth it. You can never fully trust her and if she was still fucking other guys the whole time, would you be okay with that? Don't think too much about her giving you her number, it's business. She most likely just thought you were a good customer or likely to repeat as a regular. I'm no Brad Pitt but i don't think I've ever been denied asking for a girl's number. Christ, they think it's weird if I'm repeating and don't ask for it. If you're just looking for a casual relationship or just fucking around, then go for it. If you're not, why not just go for a civi if you're pursuing a serious relationship. If you have the looks, charm, and wits to pull a working girl, why not just save yourself the stress and frustration and go for a girl without all that baggage and bullshit with her.

Just trying to save you the hassle and hurt, you're thinking with your dick right now. It's lust not love.

So...when I first started this hobby I swore to myself to not fall for any of the girls that I see and I have seen quite a few since I started. I created a thread awhile ago about conversion and how I would like to go down the rabbit hole and become friends with MPAs. I received numbers from girls but never acted or actually contacted them back or went back to see them again just cause the girls that actually offered me their number, I wasnt really too attracted to them, though they werent bad looking. So fast forward to now and a few weeks to a month ago I see this MPA (I wont name where I saw this girl or name the girl) but dam I think I have a crush on the girl... which I have seen now a hand full of times. Call me an idiot and say what you may but dam I feel what I feel, I know everyone is going to say that the women just want your money and all that which I dont disagree with but dam I am stumped here...

FUCK SAKES LISTEN TO YOUR CONSCIENCE MAN IT'S SPEAKING TO YOU

 

[krayjee]

FUCK SAKES LISTEN TO YOUR CONSCIENCE MAN IT'S SPEAKING TO YOU

It won't work at this time. He has to go through it and learn it a hard way and let him find out how cold these ladies can be. He means nothing to them, to them he is just another willing victim. All we can do is to warn him enjoy the moments but not to lose himself for spa girls.

 

[luvdafurburger]

It won't work at this time. He has to go through it and learn it a hard way and let him find out how cold these ladies can be. He means nothing to them, to them he is just another willing victim. All we can do is to warn him not to lose himself for spa girls.

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**Anatomy of a Simp Lonely Hearts Club thread-

Newb: "hey guys! I met someone who is sooo amazing! We have something special. We click in a hundred ways! What do you guys think? Should I or shouldn't I?"
15-20 Members:"be careful Dude! It's probably gonna be a rabbit hole to avoid. Here's the 87 reasons why..."
Newb-"appreciate all the comprehensive advice. That's great! I hear ya!...BUT I think I'm gonna go for it. Did I mention we have something special?!..."

**Admin- feel free to make my post a Sticky

 

[Abyss]

It won't work at this time. He has to go through it and learn it a hard way and let him find out how cold these ladies can be. He means nothing to them, to them he is just another willing victim. All we can do is to warn him enjoy the moments but not to lose himself for spa girls.

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**Anatomy of a Simp Lonely Hearts Club thread-

Newb: "hey guys! I met someone who is sooo amazing! We have something special. We click in a hundred ways! What do you guys think? Should I or shouldn't I?"
15-20 Members:"be careful Dude! It's probably gonna be a rabbit hole to avoid. Here's the 87 reasons why..."
Newb-"appreciate all the comprehensive advice. That's great! I hear ya!...BUT I think I'm gonna go for it. Did I mention we have something special?!..."

**Admin- feel free to make my post a Sticky

Seriously I hear you guys. But everyone starts off as a noob somewhere it's through all the hard experiences and learning the hard way that you become a true vet...

 

[krayjee]

Seriously I hear you guys. But everyone starts off as a noob somewhere it's through all the hard experiences and learning the hard way that you become a true vet...

We heard you loud and clear. Go ahead, have fun, just don't lose yourself and make sure you have another one ready in your hands. You sure will need a shoulder to cry on.

BTW... have you seen Minnie yet? Go see her for 90 minutes. She might be able to change your mind .

 

[luvdafurburger]

Seriously I hear you guys. But everyone starts off as a noob somewhere it's through all the hard experiences and learning the hard way that you become a true vet...

I hear Belle Delphine has a sale on some more tub water.

 

[The hook]

Good luck to you my good sir let us know how it turns out..

 

[cockmeat]

It won't work at this time. He has to go through it and learn it a hard way and let him find out how cold these ladies can be. He means nothing to them, to them he is just another willing victim. All we can do is to warn him enjoy the moments but not to lose himself for spa girls.

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Totally true

 

[hookerpuncher]

Go through with it and see what happens. I don't think any guy here takes the advice of others seriously. Only way to learn is to get burned. If you don't and its successful then good for you but I've seen the success rate of this and you're pushing your luck.

 

[Abyss]

We heard you loud and clear. Go ahead, have fun, just don't lose yourself and make sure you have another one ready in your hands. You sure will need a shoulder to cry on.

BTW... have you seen Minnie yet? Go see her for 90 minutes. She might be able to change your mind .

I still haven't had a chance to see Minnie.

 

[DareDevil]

I still haven't had a chance to see Minnie.

I'm sure some of us.
We all have been there and done that.
If you do meet someone special at a MP and feel you have a connection and want more I say go for it. Sometimes we all think with the wrong head, but in this case you do need to think with both heads. Lol If you feel there will be a fairy story ending to this probably unlikely. But cherish the moment and enjoy each other's company, have lots of fun. Honestly probably best to have 2-3 close ones around you. This way you will never get hurt if something doesn't work out. When we talk about a serious commitment or relationship on both ends, lots of trust and understanding will be needed. Honestly if you want or looking for long term love go outside. Maybe online dating website, maybe your work or at a Church. Bottom line don't fall in love with a MP. Like everyone said it here will you be able to accept what she does on a day to day and not let it affect your relationship. It will be hard and eventually lead to mental break down. The only way i can see it working if both parties are in the same industries. A spa owner and MP or like 2 porn stars. It will be Mutual understanding on both ends as both won't feel they are being cheated on a regular basis. Anyhow my 2 cents! Happy Massaging guys and keep it realistic.

 

[Abyss]

I'm sure some of us.
We all have been there and done that.
If you do meet someone special at a MP and feel you have a connection and want more I say go for it. Sometimes we all think with the wrong head, but in this case you do need to think with both heads. Lol If you feel there will be a fairy story ending to this probably unlikely. But cherish the moment and enjoy each other's company, have lots of fun. Honestly probably best to have 2-3 close ones around you. This way you will never get hurt if something doesn't work out. When we talk about a serious commitment or relationship on both ends, lots of trust and understanding will be needed. Honestly if you want or looking for long term love go outside. Maybe online dating website, maybe your work or at a Church. Bottom line don't fall in love with a MP. Like everyone said it here will you be able to accept what she does on a day to day and not let it affect your relationship. It will be hard and eventually lead to mental break down. The only way i can see it working if both parties are in the same industries. A spa owner and MP or like 2 porn stars. It will be Mutual understanding on both ends as both won't feel they are being cheated on a regular basis. Anyhow my 2 cents! Happy Massaging guys and keep it realistic.

Thanks for the input! Since the time of me creating this thread and now iv actually already acted on it lol. Not sure if I want to share the update or not though lol...

 

[krayjee]

Thanks for the input! Since the time of me creating this thread and now iv actually already acted on it lol. Not sure if I want to share the update or not though lol...

Good. Have fun and enjoy the moment. Just make sure you have another shoulder ready to cry on. Trust me. You will need it otherwise you will go through hell when you two broke up. For them, it's a piece of cake, they will date another guy in no time and you mean nothing to them.

 

[kittyhound69]

Tell you what … if she’s still working at a spa , she is doing the nasty with others . Tell her you will still see other spa girls. See what she says. Lol. She can do it but you can’t.

 

[krayjee]

I still haven't had a chance to see Minnie.

Go see her asap and keep her as your extra shoulder. See her often even when you're with your girl. She is like a therapist, she can make you forget all your blues. If you go see her only after you broke up, you'll fall in love with her and will get into more trouble. Another one you can see is Amy there. She is also capable of making you forget the world.
Pls remember. Don't ever lose yourself for any mpa. They are sex workers and they are seeing 8-9 guys every day. They will always come across someone they like better than you and dump you like a piece of junk as if you're nothing to them. Never fall in love with a spa girl, not worth it. If she is willing to quit the spa job to be with you and cut off all the ties from the spas, that might be a different story.

 

[Deleted member 92532]

Tell you what … if she’s still working at a spa , she is doing the nasty with others . Tell her you will still see other spa girls. See what she says. Lol. She can do it but you can’t.

I’m still of the belief they should do whatever but he should protect his money is all.

 

[Abyss]

I’m still of the belief they should do whatever but he should protect his money is all.

I share the same sentiment and thanks I will protect my money.

 

[krayjee]

I’m still of the belief they should do whatever but he should protect his money is all.

Money is not everything. All the girls I have dated never cares about my money and some won't even take my money. You have to be careful with some gold diggers who ask you to buy brand name stuffs like Gucci or LV bags. That's quite normal at holistic spas but not much at semi legit. Some semi legit girls have some pride. Holistic girls are a different story.
I have came across some who're quite jealous. They don't want me to see another girl even tho' they're banging other guys every day. One girl told me it's her job. I am cheating on her if I see someone..

 

[Deleted member 92532]

Money is not everything. All the girls I have dated never cares about my money and some won't even take my money. You have to be careful with some gold diggers who ask you to buy brand name stuffs like Gucci or LV bags. That's quite normal at holistic spas but not much at semi legit. Some semi legit girls have some pride. Holistic girls are a different story.
I have came across some who're quite jealous. They don't want me to see another girl even tho' they're banging other guys every day. One girl told me it's her job. I am cheating on her if I see someone..

I don’t see how we’re disagreeing here. “Taking care of your money” also means not using your own money for super expensive gifts.

 

[krayjee]

I share the same sentiment and thanks I will protect my money.

SO......What's going on and how is it going with your love life? Have you seen Minnie yet?