Wanna go out and meet some cute boys!

[bsk]

Hrms, sounds like could do a good trade in ex military armored vehicles there. As you say guess just a matter of seeing for myself if could put up with the journeys...not that I go out a lot, but id like the option too without going on a white knuckle ride.

 

[Steve N]

damn heywood, that was judgemental!

Firstly, I hide nothing, I am proud of my freedom in regard to my sexuality and my male and female friends alike know that. I am not above anyone, I am a serious egalaterian! I have never made a moral judgement but if you consider calling a prostitute a prostitute a moral judgemnent as many of you here seem to then I would check the cause for the hyper-sensitivity. If I work as a sales person or a waitress and you call me a salesperson or a waitress as those are my means of earning a living I would hardly call that a moral judgement.

Do men take me for dinner, well most of the guys I am with can't usually afford to as most are students. I do not take drinks from men EVER unless I am buying next round. When I am out and a guy offers to buy me a drink I usually decline unless I want to talk to him in which case I insist on buying the next round. If a guy does take me for dinner I will pay for the drinks afterward, or preferably go dutch. I also do not accept expenisve gifts unless it is from someone I am in love with and I would or have done the same for them.

You define a slut as someone who is a taker, I do not agree. My definition of a slut is a girl that will have sex readily with many guys, (I hate the word by the way as it IS a moral judgement levied mainly by men but use it mainly in gest).

Nothing about the definition of a slut puts me in the category of a prostitute and furthermore I have never moralised or made moral judgements about prostitution, I am pro-legalisation of prostitution in fact. I think while you are saying I need to justify myself, you are too busy justifying your own self. Now if that isn't a western man I do not know what is!

 

[MyLoveYourLife]

Geespot now I do not give a flying f*uck what anyone says when I respond to this because your latest comment is the stupidest load of bollocks I have ever heard! I can't compete? with what? You mean my education? You mean the fact that I was not unfortunate enough to have been born into a society and in financial need so I have to slobber over men that make me want to vomit? Or that I do not have to sleep with the likes of people like you? I assure you, I do not have a jealous bone in my body when it comes to bg's or tg's in general. i worked as a stripper and know how I felt went I had to even flirt with men I normally would not give the time of day to, now I can imagine how awful it is to have to fu*ck them!

I have many Thai friends and adore them, male and female! I have never had a problem getting attention and do not here either. Why would I be jealous? And for fu*ck sake do not pile me in a heap with "all western women" and tell me how jealous we all are because I think in reality perhaps your jealous of the younger hotter guys that do not need to resort to coming to thailand to pay to get a piece of ****! Please explain that stupid comment! The men who are on that scene, for the most part, are men I would not even want attention from, way out of my demographic. And before the onslaught of bs posts telling me how I do not know young guys etc. and how all of you do, interestingly, I have gotten more pms from guys under 25 who are coming here and want to meet up and hang out than any other group. Geespot, you may want to believe a bargirl is the envy of every western woman, but I think you are seriously delusional if that is what you think!

 

[prashant4044]

Thats the one.

Trouble with drinking in Phuket is it depends a lot on where you live because tuk-tuks are a rip off and the only other option is drive/ride home yourself. Not only very irresponsible, but the cops often have roadblocks at night to check for drunk drivers.

I live in Phuket City so i dont go out drinking in other areas as much as i'd like. Still, plenty of places to have fun. Forgot to say Timber Hut as well, someone already mentioned that above. Good band and mix of Thai and expat crowd.

 

[Hello!]

Hey Mikey

What do you mean starting to again. When did I ever stop?

Give me a little kiss, Mikey! :love:

 

[Big Dummy]

Oh dear, I thought this was dead!
No I am not taking my son to Phuket to get him laid
No I am not going to Phuket to get myself laid
We are going diving in a beautiful part of the world.
My sons sex life is his business.My sex life is my business.
I do not know about his sex life,he does not know about mine.
I ask questions to understand.(to many people go abroad and are then surprised because it is not like home.I asked the same questions about Pattaya.I did not like the answers, so we are not going there.
What goes on in Phuket or Pattaya goes on.I am not approving or disapproving.I am a visitor.If someone comes to the UK,they have to accept what is considered normal there.
I have made it very clear to my son (he is six foot something, blond and slim)that he may get some attention from the "locals".If he knows what to expect he can deal with it in an edcucated way(his way not mine)
Please stop your constant harping back to this subject.I tried to defend you in my last post but it is getting very hard(no pun intended).
Please,if you are still in Phuket in early July,have a drink with both of us.You will see that we are both normal human beings who are enjoying a holiday together in an environment which is different to our normal one.
ps yes we are males, we will enjoy sitting there watching pretty girls and probably will be flattered by the attention but at least we will be aware of what is going on.

 

[nearlyfond]

Just digging around..

Recent data is showing an infection rate of 2% of ALL African Americans !!! Feb 25th 05 http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/7032358/

The data on the pregnant women demographic is 2.7 % and is http://phuketgazette.net/news/index.asp?fromsearch=yes&Id=3164

Sub Saharan africa is now seeing infection rates over 40% (swaziland) and many countries over 30% (Zimbabwe etc)..

When figures are looked at in this light it does make you wonder why no one would say they would be sacred to sleep with a Black girl in America because of STD's (that would be racist) yet its normal to say dont sleep with a girl in Thailand..

 

[Superior Jeans]

I am anything but a feminazi. I have been here 3 months so far. I am so far from a feminazi that it is unreal. Like I said, I am a very open person who has done wild shit in my life. I am known for getting my kit off after too many drinks and am VERY wild. I love hanging out with all sorts of people. Just because this particular scene turns me off does not mean I am a bad judgemental person. I am SIMPLY asking for advice from people as to where I can go to not be caught up in all this. I am not trying to spoil anyone elses fun, or doing anything else to change Thailand or stop prostitution...I think they should legalise it to protect all parties involved!

ALL I am asking for is advice on where to go and not have to be subjected to it. And yes, I think some of the girls are coming up to me to be nice, no doubt, but when you get surrounded by them it can be a bit much.

 

[Lara]

CeeGee that is just an excerpt from my post that responded to the whole debate that got switched over to this thread. At this point I do not think it is actually even about you more of the concept of what people thought I said and what my interpretation of your original post was. It seems to come up in every thread and my only point over and over and over is that I would stand by the comments I made if it has to do with a Dad taking his son, or a Mom taking her daughter for that matter, to procure sexual services.

I am sure you are a nice bloke and the more you post the more sincere I find you actually and apologise if this has caused you any angst! As for that drink, that's not fair, 19 year old hot blonde blokes are my weakness! But of course it would be a pleasure to meet you if I am still there. (I would warn your son to guard his privates though, I was with a Danish guy just about his age also blond and very good looking and he had problems with some of the girls actually just grabbing him there his first nights here, and was subsequently quite frightened of them).

 

[Louise H]

A former striptease dancer with connections to Thai governement.... Either a mia noi, or just dreaming....
As for your namecalling, i congratulate you... Now im really looking forward to be a "sorry muthafuc*a"..... :aao: :mad2: :aan: :bangin:

 

[Kamukhamopwetko]

Ok now you have dropped down kindergarden level, And I apologise now but I refuse to be dragged down that far, So seeing as you have finally shown your true colours thats where I will leave it, THE END............

 

[Marc S]

Livinlos, I am that that type no doubt. I will sit and do shots until I am naked on a bar dancing, no prob. I like the BG's as people and my first week here was in Patpong waaaay after hours hanging out with about 10 of them having the time of my life trying to learn thai when drunk, teach them some more english etc. It is the scene I hate, add the "business" side of it and then you have too much bs going on peripherally for my taste. I hope I am starting to paint a more accurate picture of myself.

Friday when I am done at work, I wanna sit at a bar and get pissed out of my head without annoyances and preferably with cool fun people. saturday...out on the pull! Aagain no peripherals, thai girls more than welcome to be wherever I am, and HELL YEAH cute thai guys are much more than welcome to be anywhere near me as long as they are not looking for a meal ticket!

 

[foxhunter1949]

I have gotten more pms

Is anyone surprised ....? :biggrinlo

 

[Raliegh Theodore Sakers]

Thanks for backing me up this one, Mikey! You reiterate the point I was making exactly. :thumbsup:

Liam referred to Thai women as "like slaves, and not respected human beings," and said that Thai women relate to men as their superiors. Liam said that Thai women are submissive. Eurogirl specifically stated that Thai men and women are subservient and that "TGs and boys come from a more submissive culture." I disagreed with them. I'm totally with you on this, Mikey! No argument there, as we seem to share a similar view!

Thanks again, Mikey! :cheers:

P.S. Have you had your glasses checked lately, Mike!

 

[kandy-x]

Hello Eurogirl,

I have been reading the posts, and yes, it seems to be going round and round in cirlces.

If you dont mind me asking, why did you become a stripper? How long did you do it for? Why did you stop? and what did you think about whilst you were doing it?

I am genuinely interested to know, and im not trying to 'set you up' so you can be attacked.

Thnxs

DM

 

[Bethalee Alice]

I would love to say sooooo many things right now (on your side) but......i am arriving in LOS in 7 days and i do not want to be lynched either and they are already expecting me so i probably couldnt hide too well. pm me if u want

 

[lynneZ]

er.. Going in my Ignore list !!!

Bye

 

[Rasiklal]

I never said I wasn't judging to begin with, you posted what you've posted I have judged it...deal with it..again this bullshIt of who am I to judge...I will judge your actions everytime you post about them.

See I have never made any claim as to me not judging, but you repeated the same song and verse.."I have never made a moral judgement"

You claim to hide nothing...So you let guys know upfront that your a slut?

I posted a definition of a slut from a dictionary. The definition reads clearly and places into the same caeforum.xxxory a slut and prostitute. Now why do you think that is the case? Its fine for you to use a dictionary to define something as long as it fits your views..but when it doesn't of coarse its just an opinion.

You say things in such a way as if your trying to make sure everyone will take notice, by saying your pro legalization..what does that have to do with anything?

I am pro go take a long look at yourself before trying to convience anyone of your position, as if it was of any concern to anyone as to what your position is, was that ever questioned??

You don't want to be around the bg scene...great...no problem...the worlds a very large place...You want a normal scene..so have at it...what the hell is the problem...Move along have your fun, You want to be a slut Great...Like anyone really cares,you don't seem to care..so why in hell would anyone else? Your only one among many.

Tell me one single way I tried to justify myself?? Just one? Please show me the errors of my ways...surely only you can show me the path to enlightenment.

So what do you write for a magazine?? You strike me as someone who would. Did I guess correctly?

 

[Wyldout]

in case you do not know heywood, 3 defintions listed do not mean they all mean the same thing, that is why they list them seperately.

As for the rest of your post there really is nothing there to answer as it is just a bunch of seemingly angry statements.

 

[Karamazov]

Eurogirl
I see what you mean, although I may not entirely agree with your thoughts
I have just PM'd you